I guess I’m really not sure how smart our dog Abbie is.
I mean, of course I’d like to believe she’s the canine Einstein (a great name for a rock band, by the way).
But really, how can you tell? It’s not like you can give her some kind of doggie IQ test (I’m quite certain she can’t even hold a #2 pencil).
I suppose I could base it on her behavior. But even then, it’s hard to reach a definitive conclusion.
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One minute she’ll be showing off her smarts by slowly tapping the back door to indicate her interest in going outside. But then ten minutes later, I’ll stand there and watch as she insists on eating some of the horse poop she just found on the trail in the back woods.
She is smart enough to have figured out one thing, however: If you want food, don’t bother waiting by your food dish.
Here’s what I mean…
We feed Abbie twice a day: Once in the morning and once at lunchtime, around 12:30. By noon, if you happen to be in the house, Abbie will begin harassing you.
Subtly at first – looking sideways at you, following you around, pushing on you, etc. As 12:30 approaches though, and if you still haven’t fed her, she’ll be in your face like a vote-hungry politician in late October.
The point is, even though she knows that the food ultimately arrives in her bowl, she looks to people – not the bowl itself – to bring the meal. She understands the relation between cause and effect.
Now I don’t mean to suggest that Abbie is smarter than you. Nor am I implying that you have anything but a modest and appropriate interest in horse manure (you do subscribe to this newsletter, after all).
I am saying, however, that in my experience, many solo professionals in search of clients pay way to much attention to the bowl (i.e., prospects) and not nearly enough attention to the people who keep it filled (i.e., their existing relationships).
It seems like it makes sense to focus on prospects. After all, prospects become clients and clients are the ones who write the checks.
But there’s an earlier step, a step which if focused on consistently and thoroughly, keeps the prospect/client/money machine turning. It’s called “staying in front of the people you know.”
Not “people who are likely to buy today” (or even ever).
I’m talking about a much larger group – “people you know.” The 500 or so co-members of the human race whom you’ve gotten to know in the course of your professional and personal life … and that you routinely ignore:
- The people who send you an e-mail with a quick question that you don’t bother answering (you’re too busy chasing prospects).
- The people who publish a newsletter with something useful or intriguing that you don’t bother replying to with a comment (you’re too busy chasing prospects).
- The people you’re connected with on LinkedIn who mention that they just got a new job and whom you ignore (you’re too busy chasing prospects).
Here’s the bottom line. I know you’ve got a lot going on every day. And so it may seem more efficient to prioritize your marketing efforts and “go where the business is.”
The problem with this narrow, nothing-but-the-final-step-in-the-process focus is that it’s the business development equivalent of standing by an empty dog food dish.
It ignores the fact that it’s the people you already know – the ones who move along the continuum from loose acquaintance to colleague to friend to fan – who ultimately buy from you and/or send others your way.
Take it from Abbie: If you want to eat on time every day, step back from the food bowl and go find the people with the ability to fill it.
Great newsletter Michael, and expect to hear from a couple of entertainers that I sent it on to. I stay in touch with my peeps through postcards, email or phoning them as their dates from past events approach. I publish a newsletter sporadically, and hope to do more religiously now that my database is together. I am “out and about” with my face painted, seeing clients all the time. if nothing else….they know I love to paint and I believe that everyone should get their face painted…it’s not just for kids anymore.
I am on FACEBOOK and try to update my blog/web site at least once a month. I responde to everyone’s photos, comments and special Status reports on FaceBOOK, and try to get on linked in weekly.
Thank you again for all your help.
You are one hard working woman, Diane! Great examples. Keep pedaling!!!
Great analogy and very smooth tie-up at the end. Love it. Great advice.
Abbie and I thank you, Alexandre!
I love your newsletter. I feel like I learn something every week – and I enjoy reading it, too! Great job with this edition.
Thanks Melody! Glad you find it useful.
I’m a fan Michael and I enjoyed this one. And as the friend of a female Golden Retriever (we’re both Scottish and living in the Philippines) it caught my eye.
I’ll send this one round again.
Thanks Alan. And truth be told, our Abbie is actually a Lab/Golden mix (we think). She arrived to us used and has a somewhat checkered past!
Michael and Abbie, especially loved this newsletter — as you know, I think dogs (and all animals) can teach us humans a boatload of lessons. Now when Grace approaches me looking for dinner, I will remember this very important marketing tip. Thank you both!
My pleasure, Robin. Regards to Grace!
There’s a LOT of info out there aimed at helping us freelancers, but your post above is the most useful and original I’ve read all week. Thanks.
All week? I was hoping you were going to say in your entire lifetime. (thank you)